NUK partners with National Breast Cancer Foundation



Breastfeeding saves lives, and leading baby product manufacturer, NUK® is spreading the word, empowering mothers to do what’s best for their health and the health of their babies.

Joining the fight against breast cancer, The NUK® brand will donate a portion of sales from its entire breastfeeding product line to the National Breast Cancer Foundation – up to $80,000 thru December 2013! This is the first time the NBCF partners with a breastfeeding product manufacturer to support its fight against breast cancer.

Not only is breastfeeding widely praised for the many health benefits it offers babies and mothers, it may also help women reduce their risk of developing breast cancer by 4% or more, according to the National Cancer Institute.

Disclosure: The information on this post was provided by NUK.. The views and opinions expressed here are my own.

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Review contest at American Girl




American Girl is sponsoring a $100 gift card giveaway on their online store!  Post an online review for any of their products by October 28 and you'll be entered to win.  Good luck!



Disclosure: I did not receive a sample or monetary compensation for this post. The views and opinions expressed here are my own.

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ONEHOPE helps provide mammograms to women in need




Did you know that when breast cancer is detected early, survival rate is 98%?  ONEHOPE Chardonnay donates HALF of their Chardonnay profits to the National Breast Cancer Foundation all year long, helping provide mammograms to women in need.   In addition....

1. For every Hope at Home private wine-tasting event booked in October, ONEHOPE will donate 1 mammogram to a woman in need through the National Breast Cancer Foundation.

2. Each of these Facebook pages -- Hope at Home, ONEHOPE Weddings, ONEHOPE Wine --  are donating $1 for each new like received this month. Every $100 = 1 mammogram funded. You can easily donate $3 to the National Breast Cancer Foundation by liking these 3 pages.



Disclosure: I did not receive a sample or monetary compensation for this post. All information on this post was provided by ONEHOPE.


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Celebrate National Book Month with new American Girl titles



Did you know that October is National Book Month?  Every month of the year is a great time to read, of course, and some kids need no encouragement to bury their nose into a book, but for those who have not yet discovered the delights of reading, the National Book Foundation has some great ideas for getting kids and parents involved, as well as reading lists for all ages and stages.

After many years of frustration, trying to get my boys to read on their own. I learned two important tips for getting kids interested in reading: Find a subject they love, and find a format they love.  If a book is about something your child loves -- dinosaurs, magic, fairies, cars, Star Wars -- he'll want to read it.  And even if the subject matter interests your child, don't be discouraged if he still won't read the book.  Maybe she doesn't like chapter books. Maybe she likes books with larger type fonts. Maybe she prefers comics, or reference books, or magazines, or craft/activity books with instructions.  That's okay!   The important thing is to keep them reading so that they pass the stage where they're struggling with the HOW TOs of reading, and start paying attention to WHAT they're reading.   That's when they start reading independently, and that's when the world opens up to them.  So if your boy likes superhero comic books, let him read!  If your girl likes activity books or magazines, let her read!

If you're looking for books to feed your reader's appetite, or books to get your girl started, check out some of American Girl's latest titles for girls.  They're all about the things girls love -- slumber parties, friends, crafts, quizzes, activities -- so they're sure to engage and delight. Here are some of the latest American Girl books that we're enjoying:


Slumber Wonders: Everything you need to host the perfect slumber party, from games to shopping lists to decorating tips to crafts.



Bored No More! Quiz Book: Perfect for slumber parties or playdates, this book contains lots of quizzes to blast away the bores and snores.


Picture Yourself Here: Girls can personalize a special scrapbook by adding their photos to silly scenes.  They can decorate them and personalize them with punch-out illustrations and captions, the wackier the better!



Innerstar University series:  Based on American Girl's popular online world, the Innerstar University books are interactive books that let readers imagine themselves as the main character in the series.  There are more than 20 different endings to a story, so girls can enjoy the book again and again.  The latest titles include Quick Change and Bound for Snow.



Innerstar University Sidelines:  A companion series to the Innerstar University books, these new nonfiction books will help girls with art, grammar, geography and math through puzzles, tips and advice from the girls at Innerstar University.  The titles include I Heart Art, Greatest Mistakes, Math + Fashion=Fun, and Find Your Way!.




Disclosure: I received review samples of select American Girl books.. The views and opinions expressed here are my own.

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One Step Ahead Halloween costumes and bags



When my kids were little, One Step Ahead was one of my main go-to-websites and stores for toys and gear.  They have practically everything a parent needs for every age and stage. I would buy bibs, placemats, sippy cups, teethers, rattles, sun hats, diaper swim covers, blankets, you name it!  I've always trusted One Step Ahead to sell high-quality items, so when they invited me to check out their Halloween costume line, I knew I'd find one-of-a-kind costumes that are as safe and sturdy as they are adorable -- not any of the flimsy stuff with frayed edges and uncomfortable material that make kids sweat and itch and scream to take the whole ting off.

Of course, you do pay for quality, so the costumes at One Step Ahead tend to be on the pricier side.... until now!   One Step Ahead is having a big sale on Halloween costumes, up to 60% off!  Here are my favorites:

Cheeky......I'm going bananas over this Monkey Costume for babies.  These kinds of animal costumes were so difficult to find when my kids were babies, I'm considering having another baby just so I can dress him in this costume.  Okay, almost.



Who's afraid of the Big Bad Wolf?  This costume was designed to blow everyone away with cuteness!  This is my favorite kind of costume for young kids because it keeps them warm in the cold Halloween night air.


The Good Witch costume is so sweet; I love how it comes with a pink crown and a star wand.


Check out how sweet our friend Zoe looks in her new Good Witch costume!  Every little girl needs a pink princess outfit, and this one is magical.  Whether she uses it for trick-or-treating, for her next princess party, or for every day dress up, it's the perfect way to bring out the princess within.


Don't forget the loot bags to go with the costumes!  One Step Ahead's Halloween Trick or Treat Bags come in the shape of a  pumpkinspider and candy corn.  They are squishy and soft, just like your little one, with no cheap plastic to scratch their little arms or legs.  They can be personalized with your child's name, so everyone knows who owns all that candy.  What's more, they come in a range of sizes, so your little one isn't lugging around a great big bag that's almost as big as he is.
There are dozens more costumes and accessories, and almost all of them are on sale.  It's the perfect time to grab an adorable costume for your little one at a scary-low price!


To receive your Halloween costume from One Step Ahead by October 31, don't forget these deadline dates:
Order by October 25 for standard shipping
Order by October 26 for 2-day shipping
Order by October 29 for overnight shipping


Disclosure: I received costume samples from One Step Ahead for review. Product information is provided by the featured company/product and is indicated in italics. The views and opinions expressed here are my own.

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Celebrate Halloween with See's Candies {Giveaway}



Halloween is almost here, and it's all about the candy!  With all the chocolates coming my way to tempt me, I have to be really picky.  I'm not wasting my calories on inferior chocolate, I want the good stuff!  That's why See's Candies are perfect for October -- their fall and Halloween chocolates and confections not only look good, they taste good. I've been a big See's Candies fan ever since I was a little girl and my relatives used to bring home cans of See's Toffee-ettes every time they traveled to the US.  I was hooked!  See's Candies are great any time of the year -- you'll never catch me saying no to a See's Walnut Square or a See's Toffee-ette! -- but their fall and Halloween gift packs are so adorable and whimsical, they are the perfect way to celebrate the season. They have chocolate ghosts, chocolate jack-o-lanterns, pumpkin truffles, pumpkin lollypops, orange creams, and other seasonal goodies.  They even offer their regular chocolates packaged in Halloween and fall-themed boxes!

See's Candies sent me a few of their Halloween and fall items to check out -- and boy have I been enjoying the product testing!  My family is falling all over themselves to help me, because we all love See's smooth, creamy chocolate and yummy fillings.  Here's what they sent me:

Fall Harvest Box
 The Fall Harvest Box is a sweet little way to celebrate fall.  I can't believe you get all this candy -- 3 Molasses Chips, 6 Milk Chocolate Foil Balls, a Scotchmallow, a Dark Chocolate Chip Truffle, a Milk Chocolate Butter and a Butterscotch Square -- for just $6.65!  It makes a great little thank-you present for teachers or PTA volunteers, or an afterdinner treat for your book club.  See's also has a Trick-or-Treat Box which has the same chocolates on the inside, but with a Halloween-themed box cover, so you can hand them out as party favors or prizes for your next Halloween party!



Petite Boo Box

The Petite Boo Box is just the right size for an afternoon treat with a friend!  You get 6 See's chocolates in a cute circular box printed with an owl.  It's perfect to give out as a grownup Halloween party favor, or lay on a pillow for your Halloween houseguest, or to pack into a Boo Bag to leave on your neighbor's front porch!


Halloween Treat Box

The Halloween Treat Box is the grand poobah of Halloween presents!  You get all your favorite See's Halloween treats, presented in a gorgeous Halloween-themed box, wrapped up with a ribbon and gift tag.  There are more than enough goodies to keep you stocked up throughout the month:

A bag of Halloween Milk Chocolate Foil Balls
A bag of Orange Twists (they are melt-in-your mouth candies, like buttermints, but orange-flavored)
A Marshmallow Jack O' Lantern
A Foil Ghost
A Trick-or-Treat Box
A Haunted House Box (containing an assortment of Sugar Sticks, Lollypops, Halloween Milk Chocolate Foil Balls, and a Foil Ghost)

Everything is individually wrapped, so you can give some of the candy away -- but why would you want to??  With yumminess like this, I won't need to raid my kids' trick-or-treat loot bags to get my chocolate fix this Halloween!  Check out the full Halloween and fall collection at See's Candies online.


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Check out the Halloween and fall collection at See's Candies online, then leave a comment on this post and tell me which of their goodies you would most like to enjoy this October.

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Grocery Outlet Frugal Finds Giveaway



It never seems to end:  gas prices are going up, up, up, dragging the cost of living is up, up, up as well.    The prices of even basic items like milk and bread and fruit are getting ridiculous!  Fortunately, I have my mother's gene for saving.  From a very early age, she taught me and my siblings to get value for our money.  She never advocated buying cheap things; why bother, when cheap things break and end up costing you even more?  She taught us to buy the highest quality that we could afford -- but she taught us to hunt for bargains whenever we could.  Why pay more for an item if you can find exactly the same item somewhere else, for less?


My mother and Grocery Outlet Bargain Market are a match made in heaven. I introduced her to the store when she visited last year, and she couldn't believe she had been visiting the US for so many years without knowing about it!  She loves the fact that she can get the same brand-name goods she can find at regular grocery and supermarket stores, but for less.  She doesn't care that the packaging may be seasonal or promotional packaging that the manufacturer doesn't want to use anymore.  She doesn't care that a giant retailer ordered too much of one thing and decided to cancel half the order, so the manufacturer sold the rest to Grocery Outlet at a discount.  All she cares about is that it's not expired, it's in great condition, and she can buy it for less.  And that's all I care about as well, which is why I like to shop at Grocery Outlet whenever I'm in the area.

Grocery Outlet recently sent me a $25 gift card to see what bargains I could find.  Now that school is in session, I always need convenient, healthy snacks to pack in the kids' lunch, so I decided to restock our snack pantry with whatever I could find at Grocery Outlet.  Just look at all the goodies I was able to buy!  They are all items and brand I buy regularly -- and since I buy them all the time, I have a good idea of how much they usually cost, and I know they are cheaper at Grocery Outlet.


The kids love granola bars, and we always keep some around.  I scored a variety of bars at just $1.99 per box.

I try to limit the kids' juice intake, so I pack them flavored water instead of juice.  At $1.99 per box of 10, I can give them flavored water for recess and lunch!

The Pea's favorite snack is strawberry gelatin; it tastes great and it helps satisfy her appetite between meals.  I found them at Grocery Outlet for just $1.50 per 6-pack.

Blueberries are getting quite expensive now that they're out of season, so I don't buy them too often now, but I couldn't resist picking up a pint because they were just $2.50.  They could easily have cost up to $4 elsewhere!

The kids eat cherry tomatoes like they're candy, but they can cost up to $4 per pint.  I was able to get them at Grocery Outlet for $1.98.

I found fruit roll-ups for 50 cents each.  Admittedly, you can get that same price at regular groceries and supermarkets when they're on sale, but it's nice to be able to buy them without having to wait for them to go on sale.

The most expensive item in my shopping bag was a bag of trail mix for $4, for Alfie to keep at his office desk and munch on in the afternoons.  It could easily have cost twice that much, had he bought it at the deli in the lobby of his office building.


All those snacks, for just $25!  No, I stand corrected:  all those snacks, for just $24.40.  I even had 60 cents left, so I bought a couple of chocolate bars for a quarter each (hey, gotta finish up that gift card).    My receipt said I saved $17.03 by shopping at Grocery Outlet.  My mother would be proud of me!


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Disclosure: Thanks to Grocery Outlet for providing me with a gift card to shop at Grocery Outlet, as well as a second gift card for the giveaway.. The views and opinions expressed here are my own.

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Print a coupon, donate to breast cancer



CouponNetwork.com will donate one cent to the American Cancer Society's "Making Strides Against Breast Cancer" program, for every coupon printed from CouponNetwork.com in October. By simply selecting printable coupons from CouponNetwork.com for the products they want and clicking “Print Now,” shoppers can aide in raising money for breast cancer awareness as they go about their days. CouponNetwork.com will donate a penny for each coupon printed, up to three coupons per user each day, for a total donation of up to $25,000.

The money raised will go to the American Cancer Society's “Making Strides Against Breast Cancer,” a powerful and inspiring event created 20 years ago to honor breast cancer survivors, raise awareness about steps individuals can take to reduce the risk of getting breast cancer, and raise money to help fight the disease through medical research.



Disclosure: I did not receive a sample or monetary compensation for this post.All information on this post was provided by CouponNetwork.com
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Build-A-Bear Workshop opens redesigned Interactive Store




When we were at Hamley's Toy Store in London this summer, one of the coolest things in the whole store (and boy does Hamley's have a lot of cool stuff!) was the interactive bathtub in the Build-A-Bear Workshop section.  The "water surface" in the tub was actually an electronic touchscreen that rippled and splashed when you poked your finger at it or sailed a boat through it, and when you put the little rubber duckies in the "water", you could see their little paddling feet!  The kids couldn't stop playing with it!

The interactive bathtub is just one of many new hi-tech features that Build-A-Bear Workshop is bringing to its stores.  The very first redesigned Build-A-Bear Workshop store opened on September 21 in St. Louis, where the company is headquartered, and it plans to open a total of six of these cool new stores across the U.S. in 2012.

Last Friday I had the good fortune to attend the opening of the second redesigned Build-A-Bear Workshop store, at the Stoneridge Shopping Center in Pleasanton.   I joined hundreds of families who had lined up to be the first to try out the new interactive experiences the store had to offer.  Here's a rundown on what's new and improved at the new Build-A-Bear Workshop store!


Store Design
The new store is filled with electronic billboards that will change to reflect the seasons, holidays and special events. Some of the electronic posters at the front of the store have interactive technology that allows kids to play around with them.


Choosing your new friend
Kids still go through the Choose Me stations to select from a variety of furry friends to stuff, dress and love -- but there is now a new Love Me station, which lets kids assign personality attributes to the red satin heart that they will put into the stuffie.  When kids scan their stuffie's tag, the stuffie's heart appears on a big touchscreen, and they can drag personality icons representing traits like Brave, Sporty, Silly, Caring, etc.. into a digital heart (parents, you may have guessed that the heart is a decoy -- the key is actually scanning the unique barcode that comes with the stuffie!)


Choosing a sound
The new Hear Me station is now controlled by an interactive touch screen.  Kids can choose a variety of sounds, or even use their own voice, and record it onto a sound chip that will be placed inside their stuffie.


Stuffing
The Stuff Me station is still the most special place in the store!  This is where the magic happens -- my kids still love pressing the foot pedal to control the amount of fluff that gets into their new friends.   The new stores will even give guests the option of adding scents to their stuffies.  Current scents are bubble gum, strawberry, cotton candy and chocolate chip, with more to come over the holidays and the changing seasons.


Cleaning


Once the last seams are pulled shut, kids can brush out their bear at the new Fluff Me station, which features the interactive bathtub that we first saw at Hamley's.  It is so cute!  The touchscreen surface recognizes the items you place on it -- the soap produces bubbles, the tugboat makes the water ripple, and the rubber ducky has paddling feet!  When kids place their new friends under the showerheads, air will blow through the showerheads, and after a while, you'll see the "water surface" drain down the tub to signal the end of their tub time.


Dressing


The Dress Me section has a Match Me station that lets you scan in the tag of any clothing or accessory item and see how it looks on a Build-A-Bear friend.  The screen shows suggestions on matching clothes or accessories to complete an outfit and lets you print out a list of the items so you can easily find them in the store.


Creating a birth certificate
The new Name Me station does more than create a birth certificate for your child's new Build-A-Bear stuffie.  Kids can now "scan in" their stuffie and use a special "bear-o-scope" to "look inside their stuffie" and see the icons representing the attributes that they dragged into their stuffie's heart at the Love Me Station.  These personality attributes are added to the birth certificate, along with a photo of the animal and all the other information on the birth certificate (name, birth date, owner's name, etc..).  Each birth certificate also has a unique identifying code that is also on a barcode that was inserted into the stuffie at the Stuff Me station.  That way, if the stuffie is ever lost and returned to a Build-A-Bear Workshop store, it can be scanned and reunited with its owner.  The code also lets kids bring their stuffie to life online at Bearville.com.



I had so much fun at the opening of the new Build-A-Bear Workshop store! I got to see all the cool new technology, and I got to see the first 100 kids try out the new features as they created special Build-A-Bear stuffies to be donated to needy families via the Red Cross.  I even got to create new furry friends for my own kids, and in the process, I found that Build-A-Bear has stayed true to the basic bear-making experience that has made them so popular with kids and parents -- but the new hi-tech store features make the process even more fun.


New Locations
Build-A-Bear Workshop will open other new concept stores in the following premiere shopping centers located in family-centric areas throughout the United States.  If you live near any of these, I highly recommend checking them out!

Annapolis Shopping Mall in Annapolis, Md. on Friday, Oct. 19
The Somerset Collection in Troy, Mich. on Friday, Oct. 26
Fair Oaks Mall in Fairfax, Va. on Friday, Nov. 9
Castleton Square Mall in Indianapolis, Ind. on Friday, Nov. 16




Disclosure: I attended the Stoneridge event at Build-a-Bear's invitation, and received bears and outfits for my 3 kids. The views and opinions expressed here are my own.




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Free health screenings at Sam's Club




Over the course of a lifetime, 1 in 8 women will be diagnosed with breast cancer, making it one of the leading causes of cancer deaths among women.

In support of Women’s Health Month, Sam’s Club will host free women’s health screenings on Saturday, October 13, from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. at all locations with a pharmacy to Club members and non members. During the screenings, Sam’s Club will give away more than 25,000 breast self-exam kits to help women better detect changes in breast tissue, such as a lump, that might require a follow-up exam by a physician.

The screening program will provide free in-Club tests for both women and men, including:
Thyroid-stimulating hormone (TSH) screenings to test for potential women’s health issues related to thyroid functionality
Prostate-specific antigen (PSA) screenings to test for signs of prostate cancer in men
· Blood pressure
· Body mass index (BMI)
Total cholesterol
High-density lipoprotein (HDL) cholesterol
Glucose
Vision testing/screenings

Nearly 17,000 women were screened during last year’s women’s health screenings. Since then, Sam’s Club has provided a total of more than a million free health and vision screenings to the communities we serve.



Disclosure: I did not receive a sample or monetary compensation for this post. All information on this post was provided by Sam's Club.


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Breast Cancer DVD




Breast cancer is a very challenging illness, but healing and a cure are often possible! To inform and inspire women during Breast Cancer Awareness Month, Lionsgate Home Entertainment is releasing the 2-disc DVD guide, Breast Cancer: The Path of Wellness and Healing, on October 2 on DVD and Digital Download for the first time. This landmark documentary reveals how top medical treatment plus ancient and modern healing techniques can help you succeed on the path of breast cancer recovery. It was created to teach women - and their loved ones - specifically how to strengthen the body, mind and spirit to rebound from illness…and thrive!

The DVDs feature intimate and empowering stories from notable survivors including Sheryl Crow, Christina Applegate, Melissa Etheridge, Olivia Newton-John and Jaclyn Smith. This 2-disc set includes over five hours of key information including a two hour overview of diagnosis and treatment options, physical recovery, mental and spiritual recovery plus over 3 hours of bonus chapters with top experts answering over 100 FAQ’s. Breast Cancer: The Path of Wellness and Healing will be available on DVD for the suggested retail price of $19.98. All profits benefit premiere breast cancer organizations including Breastcancer.org and UCLA’s Jonsson Comprehensive Cancer Center.



Disclosure: This post contains a press release courtesy of Bender/Helper.  I did not receive a sample or monetary compensation for this post. 


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Bonggamom's Friday Finds -- list your giveaways here


Bonggamoms Friday Finds

Welcome to Bonggamom's Friday Finds! I'm glad so many of you are finding this to be a useful way to get more traffic to your giveaways. And as a person who loves entering giveaways, I have to admit it's a great, easy way to find out where all the best giveaways are.

So feel free to leave links to your giveaways, everyone. And don't forget to get cracking and enter everyone else's, too!




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October is Bullying Prevention Awareness Month



Amidst all the pumpkin carving and the costume making and the candy collecting, it's important to remember that not every child is looking forward to celebrating Halloween -- or any kind of holiday -- with his or her friends.  Some children live their lives in misery because they are bullied at school, bullied at the playground, bullied over the web.  It's a serious issue with serious consequences for both the bullies and the bullied.   

October is Bullying Prevention Awareness Month, and many organizations, from the National Child Traumatic Stress Network to StopBullying.gov to Stomp Out Bullying, to It Gets Better, are providing resources to identify, combat and prevent bullying.  Their websites are great resources for parents and educators and young adults.  

However, I firmly believe there is no substitute for parents talking with their kids, especially younger kids and school-aged kids, and having a frank discussion about bullying -- why it's not okay, putting themselves in other kids' shoes, how they can protect themselves, what they can do if they see it happen.  I don't mean gathering them into the living room for a formal lecture!  Bullying awareness is a subject that can be woven into everyday conversations.  Here are some suggestions:

1) Ask your child how his school day went -- who he played with, what games they played, whether he had fun, etc..

2) Comment on a news story about bullying, or even terrorist activities.

3) Apologize to your child if you lose your temper and yell at him (because using your physical size or your power as a parent to intimidate your child is a lot like bullying!). 

4) Read your child a story about bullying -- GoodReads has a great list of anti-bullying books.  If your child is in middle school, try a book from the Macmillan Editor's anti-bullying list for junior high and up. 

5) There are many anti-bullying documentaries to watch, including Ellen Degeneres' Bully and 10-year old Gerry Orz's Day of Silence, but your child may not be ready for such stark ideas.  Fortunately, Sesame Street has an anti-bullying page with videos featuring Big Bird and other friends, dealing with bullying in a far gentler, but no less serious way.  

6) Encourage your child to try out some of the anti-bullying games and activities available on the web.  PBS Kids has a great bullying website that talks to kids about bullies in language they can understand, and tests their knowledge with the their Beat the Bully.  For school-aged kids, there's Awesome Upstander!, an app for the iPhone, iPad and Android devices that entertains kids which teaching them some important lessons about bullying and empowering them to take action among themselves.  What's more, 50% of proceeds from the sale of the app in October will benefit organizations like Truth Locker. I've received a copy of Awesome Upstander! for my iPad, so stay tuned for a review of the app!



Disclosure:  Awesome Upstander is reimbursing me for my purchase of the Awesome Upstander iPad app.  The views and opinions expressed here are my own.


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